As much as I love the idea of MobileMe, this nightmare is why I will never use it.
At some point I need to have some trust that the data it holds is secure, and Apple can’t possibly guarantee the long term security of the data and access. In the end the most they can do when a screw up occurs is shrug and say sorry.
If on the other hand there was a set of tools that came with OSX Server that allowed my iDisk and related mobile syncing to be on a server I or my organization control I would feel a lot more comfortable.
